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As parents we want to do the best by our children at all times and in every way possible, from ensuring they have a healthy diet and having them well rested to teaching them boundaries and to be respectful to others and grow up to be law abiding, well mannered and well adjusted citizens:)

There are numerous approaches to parenting available and we all try to do what we think is right.

Time Out? Grounding? Positive Parenting? Scolding? Smacking? Positive Parenting? Pretend they are someone elses child:) As first time parents, how would we know? 

A recent research article published byKim Oakes, a professor at Sydney University and a council member of the International Society for the Prevention of Child Abuse and Neglect led me to to ask our Behavioral Expert, Super Nanny Nadine, what she thought about the above article and what she thinks about hitting a child in general. 

Children are now legally protected from all forms of physical punishment in 29 countries.

Read more: http://www.smh.com.au/opinion/society-and-culture/attitude-to-child-discipline-smacks-of-ambivalence-20111007-1ldg8.html#ixzz1aULoW8ki

This is what our Super Nanny Nadine had to say 

"Like this article states, the only thing you are teaching children when you hit them is that hitting is ok! So don't be shocked when your 3-year old hits you back one day! Parents, whether they want to be or not, are their child's biggest role model and therefore, need to behave in a socially appropriate manner as much as possible. Studies on the use of behavioral interventions which focus on positive reinforcement have been proven to work so there is no need for physical punishment of any kind. Creating a consistent, predictable and structured environment in your home and community will help children feel secure and will teach them rules and discipline. Some suggestions: creating visual (picture) schedules, explaining rules and consequences before the behavior occurs and keeping a calm and firm tone when giving directions. Be consistent and you will see positive changes all day long!"

Nadine, M.Ed., BCBA, SEIT/ABA Therapist

Developmental Delay and Autism Specialist

Family Training Specialist

Nadine can be contacted at Nadine@momtomomsadvisor.com. Contact her today to learn about effective tools you can use to put an end to your child's challenging behaviors in order to start enjoying SUCCESSFUL parenting!!:)